Dear Dr. Laura,
When we had our babies, my husband and I made a conscious choice to do without a lot so I can stay at home and raise them. We lived in a trailer house and drove a very old car. The church thought we were poor and "tried" to give us a Thanksgiving dinner one year. What's funny is our house and car was paid for. The only bills we had was our utilities. It just goes to show you not to judge a book by the house they live in or the car they drive.
Staying at home gave my kiddos a solid foundation and allowed them as adults to always land on their feet and know what "home" truly is! My biggest and best accomplishment, aside from marrying my husband, was raising three amazing kids. Just in case you might be interested... My oldest boy is 25 and is trying to get into medical school. My autistic daughter is 24. She drives, works, and is about to go back to college. My youngest son is 21. He married an amazing young lady, went into the Army, served in Afghanistan, and is about to begin college for political science - YUCK! HAHA. I'm proud of my children, but I'm proud of myself and my husband! We did a damn good job! Bravo Zulu's to us!!! I agree with you!!! Why have children if you're going to pay someone else to raise them? Get a dog!
Sincerely,
Myca
