April 8, 2013
Testing the Waters Tweens love to try new things, including dangerous, addictive drugs. Would you be able to tell if your kids were sampling drugs - and how would you respond if they were? By Dr. Jerry Weichman www.drjerryweichman.com I'd like to be able to tell you that teens don't use drugs. Unfortunately, that's not true. I wish I could assure you that tweens - kid ages 9 to 12 - wouldn't think of using drugs. But I'd be lying. In my practice, I see tweens every day who are experimenting with alcohol and drugs, always without their parents' knowledge. It's not uncommon for tweens to first try drugs in middle school. Even if they don't become hard-core users, just this short exposure can have dire consequences for the rest of your child's life. Drug and alcohol exposure is especially dangerous during the growth years because it primes the brain for addiction. Scientific research has shown that the earlier a person is exposed to drugs or alcohol, the greater the likelihood he or she has of becoming dependent on these substances. Getting Started Tweens often begin experimenting with drugs by drinking alcohol or smoking marijuana. They may seek a high from non-prescription cough suppressants such as Robitussin or decongestants like Coricidin. Others use prescription drugs such as Oxycontin, Xanax, Vicodin and Ritalin, or other drugs that treat attention-deficit disorders. I've seen kids using heroin too; they think smoking it is safer than injecting it. I'm also noticing more tweens and teens experimenting with ecstasy. This stimulant and hallucinogenic was once the drug of choice for "ravers," but its popularity has spread. Some studies have shown that ecstasy use can lead to a lifetime of increased depression and anxiety, plus immediate side effects that include confusion and disorientation. I routinely see young people in my practice who have been sexually assaulted or committed sexual acts they regret while high on ecstasy, which profoundly impairs judgment. "Spice" and Salvia There are scores more drugs that you probably don't know about - but your children might. Synthetic marijuana, often called "spice," offers the same mind-altering qualities as pot and is largely undetectable by most drug tests. So is salvia, the hallucinogenic drug that "Hannah Montana" star Miley Cyrus was filmed smoking on her 18th birthday. Salvia is legal in California, but that doesn't mean it's safe. Considering how much drug education our society and we as parents provide, why are tweens using drugs? Some may have older siblings who use drugs. Others are trying desperately to persuade themselves and others that they are mature and "cool." For those struggling socially, becoming a "partier" quickly gives them acceptance. Others are self-medicating for depression, anxiety and low self-esteem. Meanwhile, the Internet and texting have increased teens' ability to connect to ideas and one another. Hearing their classmates talk casually at lunch about weekend drug use or seeing party pictures on Facebook has desensitized adolescents to the idea that drug use is dangerous and illegal. Instead, they feel that it's no big deal because everyone is doing it. Protecting Your Kids In my practice, I see many caring, educated and involved parents who are stunned and heartbroken to learn that their tween has been using alcohol and drugs. They did not know their children were experimenting with, testing, abusing and ingesting these mind-altering substances. You can help protect your children from the dangers of drug and alcohol abuse. Here are a few suggestions:
http://www.drugabuse.gov/publications/drugfacts/spice-synthetic-marijuana http://www.abovetheinfluence.com/facts/drugsecstasy http://www.drugs.com/ecstasy.html Jerry Weichman, Ph.D. is an expert on teen and preteen issues and has a clinical psychology practice based at the Hoag Neurosciences Institute in Newport Beach. He is the author of the teen self-help book, How to Deal, and a popular speaker about parenting, bullying, and adolescent coping skills. As a result of overcoming a childhood lower leg amputation and becoming a Division I college football player, Dr. Jerry has a unique perspective on coping with - and surmounting - the challenges of adolescence. Follow him on Twitter @drjerryweichman or visit www.drjerryweichman.com. Permission granted for use on DrLaura.com. Posted by Staff at 7:05 AM |