September 22, 2016
Words DO Hurt

Dr. Laura:

I think the most damaging things parents say to their kids are things said in criticism, making them feel like they can't do anything right.  If they aren't doing something right, it's a teaching moment, not a chance to call your child "stupid" or tell them that they will never amount to anything.  

I remind my kids to do their best every day, and to be kind and courteous.  Everything else will fall into place.  I don't want them to break down if they fail a test, because we'll figure out how to fix it and do better next time.  

We have to be careful how we talk to our kids, because words can hit as hard as a fist.

Marilu 


Posted by Staff at 10:59 AM