Hello Dr. Laura,

I am reading your book "Ten Stupid Things Men Do to Mess Up Their Lives" for the second time, and I have to say to all the men listening to your show, they need to stop and listen to you because you are right.  I did at least 5 of the ten stupid things when I picked my wife and now we have been separated for just over a month. I wanted to be her knight in shining armor but I couldn't be.  She had 2 kids with 2 different sperm donors and neither saw their kids much, if at all.  I was never enough and life was never "fair" even if everything was going fine. But first and foremost, I was unhappy because I had told myself I could save her, take care of her, and be the only one for her.  IT never happened. So to all the men out there please read the book and while you're doing that, don't be dumb and say to yourself it will be OK or that won't happen to me because it will and it does.

Thank you again

William