October 27, 2016
I'm Sorry I Chose Him To Be Your Father


Dr. Laura:

I was young and thought I was indestructible when I got pregnant at the age of 21 by an on-and-off again 23 year old boyfriend. The boyfriend and I broke up, but I had the baby.  As my son got older, I apologized to him for choosing that guy to be his father, as his father has never developed a real relationship with him.

I went to nursing school to be able to get a good job to support us.  One of my nursing instructors recommended listening to you!  So I did, and you made so much sense.  I quickly dumped a boyfriend and vowed never to date again until my son was grown.

I'm very proud of my now 23 year old son.  We both listened to your show while he was growing up, and you not only guided me, but him as well.  When someone he knows isn't doing the right thing, he says "they need Dr. Laura!"  People always tell me what a great young man he is, and often want to know how he got to be that way.  I proudly tell them that I gave him my time and devotion (and, of course, that we got a lot of wisdom from you).  He thanks me to this day for never putting anyone before him, and while it wasn't always easy, I know in my heart it was definitely worth it.

Sally


Posted by Staff at 10:59 AM