Dr. Laura,

In my opinion, there are so many mistakes parents make these days.  The first is moral inconsistency or lack of any moral foundation. It is important for children to understand there is a moral code.

Another failure on the part of parents is neglect. Both parents are usually working and children receive everything but their parents' attention. Junior does not see an example of a male image to imitate. When I say 'male', I mean those characteristics of a man who sees to his home, shows love and affection to his children, and displays love and respect for their mother.  In particular, his affection to his daughters, or the lack thereof, will have a great determination on her successful relationship with a man later in life. I have often said, "If dads do not show affection to their daughters, there is someone out there who will and the result will not be pleasant." Dad's also need to spend time with their sons or they will find another group who will give them attention and this can also be devastating.

Finally, I am a firm believer in Mom being at home for her children. It is a stabilizing factor of the home.

Ronald