Dear Dr. Laura, 

I must say that reading "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" 10 years ago still continually changes my life in surprising ways. I really thought that my marriage was great now that I was practicing waking up each day with the thought of how to make my husband's day better, but he shocked me the other day even though you did promise that if I treated him well that it would only come back to me tenfold.

You see I have been creating a vision board each year with words and pictures of what I expect from my year ahead. Something to wake up and see each day to keep me focused on what is important. This vision board is posted beside our bed on the wall. Last year, I was amazed that a few things I wanted came to fruition so I happily created my new board this past January and again a few things happened that I really, really wanted to happen.  It finally hit me in the face why these things were happening. It was because my knight in shining armor was looking at my vision board too and seeing what I desired the most and of course wanted these things for me. He wants to make my dreams come true no matter how small. WOW! I had no idea 10 years ago that this is what love is not a feeling per se, but constantly looking for ways to make your spouse's life better each and every day.

Thank you again. This never would have happened if I had not read your book.

Sincerely,

Andree