I began listening to you on KFI in Los Angeles when my now-32-year-old son was a baby. I chose to be a stay-at-home mom after earning a master's degree, and your show was a powerful affirmation of my decision.
My son and his amazing wife just had a baby. Before visiting them as a new grandma, I listened to your Deep Dive on mother-in-law mistakes, so I’d be aware of potential friction.
I took to heart the advice to always ask permission and cheerfully respond no matter what. It worked! They were in charge, and I listened. I asked before holding or changing the baby. I asked how I could help, and I listened if they declined my offer.
As a result, I got LOTS of baby time and no push-back from the new parents. I could have really blown it if I took it upon myself to “help” in ways they didn’t want. They did end up asking me to do a few things for them, but my main job was to cuddle the baby between feedings! Thank you again for your straightforward wisdom!
Wendy
Asking How I Could Help Worked for This Mother-in-Law
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