I was lucky enough to learn how to sail at six years old. I had to rig the Sunfish boat, get it out of the windless cove and meet the group of other kids and instructors on the lake.
I sobbed and paced on my first day of camp. I was sure I couldn’t do it alone. My mother sat on the dock, smoking a cigarette, reading her magazine and chatting with the other moms. She was ignoring my meltdown, but I knew that meant I must be safe. She’d be worried if she thought I wasn't able, but she knew I COULD. And, I DID IT.
I became a winning racer and deeply loved the sport. I spent a lot of time alone on the water, relying only on my own abilities, and, through that experience, I developed a strong sense of self-confidence and assurance. I hardly ever panic.
As a mom, I required my children to take up an activity that required self-dependency. My daughter rode horses while my son hiked and skied. They’re also very confident and happy adults. Please, young parents, find something for your children to do that requires independence — something that does not involve YOU.
Meg
Sailing Taught Me Self-Reliance
What did you learn from participating in sports or hobbies at a young age? Share your thoughts with me by emailing drlaura@drlaura.com!