I heard you talking about “weeding your garden” and I wanted to say that it is such a liberating and life-changing action. My sister has been verbally abusive to me for years. I guess I’m a little thick-headed because it took me 50 years to finally say "Enough!" But now my life is peaceful.
My sister is only 1½ years older, and we shared the same friends growing up. She’s funny and charming, but if I ever upset her, she would lose her mind. Two years ago, she launched an attack on my daughter that really crossed the line. Enough was enough, and I said I no longer wished to have regular contact with her. She proceeded to text me vile things, and I just remained silent.
It’s funny — I think I was willing to accept the abuse because I liked her. I thought I would miss her friendship, but I do not. I am free. I am not mad at her, just free of her.
I want to thank you for the profound impact you have had on my life.
Mary Ann
Weeding Your Garden
What did it take for you to "weed out" your own garden? Share your stories with me by emailing drlaura@drlaura.com!
