Hi Dr. Laura,
We have such a lack of manners in our society it is just shocking. I took the time to make a short list of what I think have been some major contributing factors to today's lack of courtesy. I had to share it with you.
- News talk show hosts: The guests, as well as the news commentators, all talk at once and try to out yell each other. The viewers usually cannot even hear the individual views of the guests. In the end, I just turn the channel; it's like sitting in a living room with a bunch of people in an argument. Trying to watch is just difficult, especially if you're trying to keep peace of mind or relax.
- Cell phones: They're everywhere! They seem to be taking over basic human contact. We see them in restaurants, on hiking trails, on beaches etc. etc. To add insult to injury, the person on his or her cell phone is usually trying to speak over every one else in the room. At least with texting we don't have to listen to the conversations.
- People being loud or rude in restaurants and other public places: The big "WOOO HOOO" and hand slap every few minutes is so obnoxious. It's all about being noticed. I am SO important that I HAVE to do something to be noticed.
- Please and thank you ARE important: Nowadays when you thank someone the usual response is "no problem". I guess that's slightly better than nothing.
I grew up in a home where manners were important and being too loud was considered rude. I raised my son the same way; he is sophisticated and respected because he respects others. I am your age Dr. Laura, so maybe we grew up in a different, kinder and more gentle era. Since it looks like parents are not doing their job teaching their children, we can put it on the schools and churches to do it.
I don't know what the answer is, but I hope there is one. Thanks for letting us air our views.
Love reading your emails,
Lisa
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