I called the other day and I had to write in to thank you. Thank you for your wisdom and point of view. You said many of the things that I have thought and tried to communicate, but was never effectively able to get across.
After our call, my wife and I had a very good discussion. For the first time, in what feels like years, my wife opened up deeply with me. She actually took accountability for her entitlement and resentment against me. In her words, she was: "Being a brat and vindictive". This is huge! Before our call with you, everything bad has been completely MY fault; leaving her as the victim. I cannot understate how big of a paradigm shift this is for her. How big of a step she is taking here. I am gaining hope again.
I pray that we use this moment of clarity and both work towards lifelong changes. I want to be here for her and protect that tenderness and vulnerability she has shown me. You are changing lives; you are truly one of our greatest national treasures that we have. God bless you Dr. Laura. I will call you again as we walk through this.
Ted
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