03/06/2017
Dr. Laura:
My mom and dad showed me what the highest standard of marriage should be. "Till death do us part" wasn't just an empty phrase. They renewed their vows on their 25th wedding anniversary before God, a priest, family, and many friends.
Their commitment was such that my father took physical care of my mom through three years of cancer, chemo, radiation and other tortuous treatment. Because he was a former Navy officer, he bore this stoically, with dignity, love and without complaint, even though I knew at times he was exhausted and broken.
For me, this is what a man is. It's nearly impossible to find this devotion and courage these days. Because of this, I became a nurse, hoping to relieve some of the pain and indifference I witnessed. After 35 years of practice, I could never come close to his heroism, but I hope I showed honor to others.
Anita
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