My husband and I were set up by his momma and my aunt. First, he brought me a chocolate cupcake because I had mentioned in passing that I loved them. Second, I was so tired of all the games boys my age were playing I decided to take your advice and cut to the chase. I asked him why he was dating. I told him I was dating to meet my future husband and father to my 82 children. His response would determine how much longer our first date would last, and if there would even be a second one. He thought for a minute, and then said "Well I don't think we are a match. I am dating to find a wife and mother to my 83 children." Needless to say we have been on the same page since we met and will be celebrating 4 laughter-filled married years together in October.
Thanks for all your advice!
Lindsay