After college, I had the opportunity to take a job in my hometown. The pay was so low, I would have to live at home. My mother said 'No'. She said if I didn't break out of my comfort zone and spread my wings at that time, I never would... More >>

...After reading your book I know now I do not have to be around toxic people. My #1 priority is now my husband and kids. I have stopped the cycle of abuse and will no longer accept abusive behavior from my 'family'... More >>

I frequently hear you advise callers they have to stand up to their parents. This advice generally is followed by a silence and then a gulp from the caller. I want to share my experience. More >>

I was raised by a no-nonsense woman. Life was simple for my mom. If you told the truth and stood up for what was right, all would go well for you... More >>

My 86-year-old dad passed away 5 years ago. My mom lived almost 100 miles from me and she said she didn't want me to have to come visit her every weekend so she would just move in with me. I loved the idea because I thought I would be able to take care of her. More >>

...I was a doormat for my mom to walk on for most of my years: I was her mother, her crutch and after my parents' divorce - she treated me like a whipped husband. And I let her... More >>

I was raised by a no-nonsense woman. Life was simple for my mom. If you told the truth and stood up for what was right, all would go well for you... More >>

After college, I had the opportunity to take a job in my hometown. The pay was so low, I would have to live at home. My mother said 'No'. She said if I didn't break out of my comfort zone and spread my wings at that time, I never would... More >>

Experience anxiety? Yes. I think it may be related to perfectionism. I grew up in a household with a narcissistic, anxious, mother who would self-medicate with alcohol and prescription drugs. More >>

After college, I had the opportunity to take a job in my hometown. The pay was so low, I would have to live at home. My mother said "No". She said if I didn't break out of my comfort zone and spread my wings at that time, I never would. More >>