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I'm PROUD I Moved Out
06/06/2016

Dr. Laura:

I recently read an article that said for the first time in modern history, living with one's parents now edges out other living arrangements for 18-34 year olds.  I'm PROUD I moved out at age 18, almost 400 miles away from my home town.  College was not for me, but I was highly motivated to get a job, and I had one within a week.

I lived with roommates from age 18 to 22.  It was difficult at times, but I supported myself 100%.  I had my own health insurance (through work), unlike most others my age that were sucking off their parents' insurance until the cutoff age.  At 22, I finally was able to get a studio apartment on my own, enjoying the freedom and accomplishment that I knew I achieved myself.  

I'm glad I was raised by parents who prepared me for adulthood and did not force me into college.  I love my independence and credit my maturity to that, even though I'm only 24 years old.   I hope more young people will get out on their own to feel what it's like to support themselves.  

Selena


Tags: Adult Child-Parent, Attitude, Behavior, Character-Courage-Conscience, Teens, Values, Women's Point of View
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