Hi, Dr. Laura,
I had four "friends" who systematically watched me struggle with an unexplained health issue for the last four years. I went from a healthy active person to being unable to walk and resorting to using a wheelchair, despite many doctors' visits, several misdiagnoses, and many attempts of my own to get better. Their lack of concern was startling.
I eventually struggled with depression and suicidal thoughts. Just when I thought all hope was lost, I finally figured out my problem, but it was not going to be an easy fix. Because I needed all my strength to face the daunting task of fixing my problem, I started dumping these "friends", and relieving myself of the pressure their callous and self-absorbed behavior was causing. I can't tell you how much better I felt.
I left out the most important thing - I had a guardian angel of a friend who stood by me through of all this. Without her, I wouldn't be here today. Her selfless help saved me many times. She made me laugh, held my hand when I cried, and kicked me in the ass when I needed it -- which happened a lot. As I sit here today well on the road to full recovery, I have no regrets. I guess it's true what they say: when a crisis happens, real friends are walking in the door while all the others are walking out.
Thank you,
Jeannie
