Dr. Laura,
My mother gave my 9-year-old son a $5 board game wrapped in flowered paper with a pink bow. Earlier, she had given my 11-year-old niece an $80 jacket for her birthday. My mother always favored my brother's children, but this was over the top. I stopped talking to her for a week, but then my father called and talked me into speaking to her again. I will always regret this because she continued to show favoritism and I put my two sons through a lot of pain for a long time. Something happened recently that finally sent me over the edge and I have not talked to my mother in 2 months.
When I listen to some of your callers and they complain about similar mothers, I just want to scream and yell, "Run!!!!! Don't give her another chance. It will never change and you will forever regret not letting go sooner."
Jo Ann
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