Hi Dr. Laura:
My kids are now adults in their twenties, and I've been married to their father for 30 years. Unfortunately, my breed is becoming extinct. My kids never went to day care. They were always with me, their Dad or their grandparents, and I don't regret the decision to stay at home.
I'm working again now, and I read a company blog that made me very sad. It was authored by a full-time working mom, and centered around her sense of leaving her kid behind. She mentioned her daughter said she missed her, because she had to work early mornings or late nights at the office and generally had little time left for her kid. Then she pushed aside those feelings and reminded her readers that she makes a difference in the family's life and is a positive influence because she works so hard. If only she worked as hard at being a Mom.
I realize I may be considered old-fashioned, but that's okay. To me, being a good wife and a good mom have been more meaningful than any career or job could ever be. Besides, jobs can't give hugs. As always, thank you for reminding us to do the right thing.
Susan
