Dr. Laura:
After 35 years, I am still my husband's girlfriend, my kids' mom, and my grandkids' grandmom. If people would be honest with themselves, take your advice and really look within, you would be out of business!
When our children left home, I knew it was up to me to assure that my husband and I grew together, not apart. I became his biggest cheerleader when he told me there was a promotion he really wanted. Instead of complaining, because it meant he would travel a lot for a few months, I took the opportunity to travel to where he was for a few romantic weekends. On the weekends he was home, I made sure he enjoyed a relaxing few days, and I sent him off on Sunday night with clean clothes, and an excellent home-cooked meal before he left. I called him to see how his day went and reminded him that whatever the obstacles, he needed to keep his eye on the prize. In the end, he did not get the promotion, but we got much more.
"Keep your eye on the prize" has become one of his favorite "go-to" sayings when discussing career obstacles with our sons. He encourages our daughters-in-law to follow my lead and be a pivotal part in their husbands' success and not a hindrance. As a result, we have a stronger marriage, our three sons have stronger marriages, and we have a house full of secure, well-loved grandchildren. A good home like this is possible....IF you are willing to do the work and "keep your eye on the prize!"
Thank you for all you do.
Cassidy
