Dear Dr. Laura,
Today you said something that changed me and I want to thank you.
I am 32 and recently married. My wife is 23 and the love of my life! No kids yet. We have both had sordid pasts. And neither of us were virgins. That being said my wife has always been able to accept this easier than I have. I know that it's hypocritical of me to hold this against her and I do what I can to not do that. It's been very hard though. However today you said something that changed me. You asked a caller, so in your world people can't change? You told him, your wife was lost before you. She now knows who she wants to be. That was so refreshing to hear. My wife is completely different from the girl I met she just needed someone to love her.