I spoke with you a few months ago after discovering that my wife was having an emotional affair. I asked you if this was ever a justifiable action. You replied "No, but if you haven't been giving to her emotional and mental well-being, it is understandable".
After many many sleepless nights of thinking how I didn't "feed" those needs over the years, I was able to put the incident in the past and concentrate on my own faults. It was not an easy process to see her turn to someone else emotionally but even harder to admit to what a cold, manipulative, absent spouse I've been.
Thank you for helping me.
Jack
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